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Sometimes, when two people fight you suddenly find your self in the middle of the fight..
Who let you interfere?
The answer is simple, the two people..
From shock and the sudden interference you would find yourself speechless and out of reactions..
You would just stand still, eyes wide open and instead of hearing the common words that come out of their mouth, you would simply hear GIBBERISH, nothing but gibberish..
And the worst part is when each one of them would ask you for your opinion and tells you to judge the whole scene but you just can’t answer because you wouldn’t be able to handle hurting one of them..
Even though the truth should be spoken..
But you would feel as if you have swallowed sharp rose stems.. I am really against Fights, specially when it comes to parents..
Both spouses should take in consideration that their fight, tone, hatred for each other would affect their child negatively..
Having a huge fight would never lead to anything, a nice conversation would lead to several solutions.. 

I believe that people should not involve others in their arguments unless they are trying to reach a solution and keep failing that, but proving who’s right and who’s wrong may not always be the best solution.