Husbands..
I know that I shouldn’t be talking about such issue, because I am still not married.. yet I believe that there is no shame in starting such topic.. I mean I could motivate men to be better husbands {inshaALlah}
I’m sure that not all of my visitors know how our beloved prophet Mohammed – Peace Be Upon Him- was at home..
What made me write such topic, is that nowadays we barely find a man that is willing to help his wife at home, willing to help raise his kids or willing to take his wife out every now and then..
Men should follow the steps of our beloved Prophet - Peace Be Upon Him - to have a great marriage life..
Our Prophet -Peace Be Upon Him- used to help his wives with the house work.. Shocking right? Why?
I mean nowadays, would you find a king who would help his maids {queens don’t do the house work} ?
That is impossible.. They would tell you that they are too busy with the economy or politics.. etc
Even though our beloved Prophet -Peace Be Upon Him-was busy spreading Islam, battling in wars and teaching the muslims the Quran.. He still gave his wives and home some time..
There is this story that I love to hear always..
When the prophet Peace Be Upon Him and his troops and wife Aisha –Radeeya Allaho A’anha - were traveling through the Desert.. The Prophet Peace Be Upon Him noticed that Aisha - Radeeya Allaho A’anha - got really tired.. so what he did is he told the troop to go ahead, while he stayed back with his wife Aisha - Radeeya Allaho A’anha -.. SO he asked her “shall you race with me” so she agreed and they raced each other..
subhanAllah.. What a sweet thing the Prophet - Peace Be Upon Him- did..
Nowadays, we barely find a husband that would help his wife in cleaning the kitchen, cooking, taking the children to school, playing with his wife and getting well dressed for his wife..
Unfortunately men nowadays believe that it is all the duty of the woman.. And if they would only think wisely.. They would come to realize that it is the duty of both spouses..
I shall not deny that men come from work exhausted, but no matter what, men should never compare the wife’s responsibility at home to his work.. Because it’s incomparable..
Women’s duty at home has double the stress the man faces at work..
Finally, I ask the brothers that visit my site.. “Why can’t you follow the steps of our beloved Prophet Peace Be Upon Him? “
Salam alaikum,
Have u heard this?
http://www.islamway.com/?iw_s=Lesson&iw_a=view&lesson_id=30563
wa alaikoum al sallam wa rahmat ALlah wa barakatuh..
yes brother.. I did..
i got the story from this lecture..
Jazak Allah khair..
Tht`s True!
YiZzatch allah 5air sis =)
keep it up(^^)
mashallah 3alaich you brought up very good points
dont forget that now a days women are working as well, and soo there work load tripled!, do you know that research shows that a stay at home mom’s work, is equivelent to 2 full time jobs . mashallah, and pple really belittle house work, how can they belittle it when its raising children.
my friend, her brother is studying sharee3a in kuwait unversity, and she told me something that really shocked me. she said her brother said that the man is also responisble for providing food for the women, even if that means cooking it for her ! ya3nee he’s supposed to be the soul provider of everything the woman needs and her chidlren as well, adn now a days, they want women to be perfect in everyway just like the magazine pictures
isnt that just precious
kidding. women are fragile beings, we are emotional in nature, we give birth for gods sake, and how do they show us appreciation, by slapping us with more house work, and making us feel like sex objects for the men’s pleasure only. im sorry, 9ij there are alot of good muslim men in il 5aleej, bs the over all stereotype is that the woman belongs to the man, she’s his property, even with this liberating deen, ppl still think this way, and sometims use deen to prove there point estaghferallah
nice post lady
keep up the good work, and yes dont be shy about this topic, i was discussing with my sis, that i found this quite funy, that our male bloggers, always advise women on waht theyre suppose to do , but we rarely see female blogger doing the same, always taking a back seat.
so actually i was very happy and delighted that you wrote this entry, wallah its like you read my mind im not kidding, mashallah 3alaich
keep it up hun!
comity –> I’m glad you liked what I wrote sister..
it’s a great lecture..
true all what we read are how men want their woman to be.. and not the opposite..
anyway..I hope the brothers would read what I wrote and get benefit from it ..
I also advise you sister to lsn to the lecture : http://www.islamway.com/?iw_s=Lesson&iw_a=view&lesson_id=30563
Jazakee ALlah khair
alsalam 3alaikom ..
أسأل الله أن يثبتنا على سنة رسوله و أن يبعدنا عن كل محدثة
بارك الله فيكم ..
Salam 3alikom sister…
So, barak Allah feech sis O yezach Allah 5air =)
Liked what u wrote… & Agree with what u said…
Also, I find it right to bring these topics up
Sister, you are right; A “good” man is rare now… I sometimes wish I was born in Sayedna Mohammed’s era…