girls for sale
When I look at the young girls these days, I assume that they are above 17..
Unfortunately my assumption is not always right..
You would sometimes see a girl in a mall wearing low waist tight pants, sleeveless shirt and full make up that looks like a 18 year old girl.. But when you ask her about her age.. She’d tell you that she just entered 12..
Shocking huh?
Or you would find a girl wearing an abaya with full make up and a camel hump in her hair.. and when you get to know her.. You’d find out that she just turned 16?
Seriously, what’s going on in our society?
Where are the parents?
I mean, I can’t picture myself looking at my daughter all dressed up like that to go to a mall? I would definitely not allow her to go out!!
Girls in that age should live their years and not waste it in things that Allah has forbidden.. They shouldn’t wear make up, wear half naked clothes, try to make scenes in public places by laughing and definitely shouldn’t give out their numbers to guys..
[ Not only girls at that age but I mean girls in general shouldn’t do such things ]
At our days, all these things were barely noticeable..
I believe that a girls beauty should be hidden away from men.. because most men are like wolves.. Waiting to cut you into pieces.. They are like predators waiting to attack their prey’s..
What astonishes me the most is that when girls wear such colorful make up, perfumes and clothes they get so mad when guys flirt with them..
EXCUSE ME?
Who told you to wear such clothes?
subhanAllah look at their mentality..
I somehow blame the parents for not raising their children in the proper way. The way Islam has taught us..
We hear a lot of stories about young girls getting pregnant from their boyfriends, this all began from the way they dress, talk and walk..
We also hear a lot about those girls that have been treated by men like cigarettes, once a man is done with the cigarette he passes it on to his friend..etc
Until the last man finally throws the cigarette to the ground and steps on it.. Where is the girl’s dignity?
Where is the girl’s dignity?Islam has told us that a woman should cover herself up in order to protect her self.. and it is mentioned in the Quran.. So why are girls doing the opposite?
A girls beauty should only be seen by her husband and not by the wolves that are unleashed searching for fresh meat..
I don’t mean to offend my visitors but I feel so sorry to those girls that expose their body and beauty to those who aren’t supposed to see her..
Let’s picture this.. You enter a shop while it’s not on sale and see a lot of clothes.. some clothes are too expensive which you can’t afford so you leave the shop thinking about how lovely that dress is..
Where as when it’s on sale.. You enter the shop and buy the clothes even if they aren’t nice because it’s cheaper and affordable..
This if how I visualize some girls nowadays.. When they are on sale, meaning they sell themselves to the wolves, everyone would take them.. Not because they’re special but because they are affordable and, I don’t want to say this, but because they are cheaper..
Whereas when a woman is well mannered, well dressed and follows Islam properly, you find men respecting her and would think about how great that girl is..
I hope that girls would not allow themselves to do such thing, for there is a punishment for those who are like that..
Who would you prefer to satisfy?
Allah – the Merciful -?
or people that would pull you towards hell?
May Allah have mercy on All muslims.
Most men are wolves?!?!?!
…Yes…
barak Allah feekum e5ty el kareemah… one of ur best entries ever ma sha2a Allah
you said what i wanted to say wezyadah wallah..
yzach Allah 5air
thats so true e5ty fellah yzach allah 5air.
Allah yehdeehum
i’ll forward it by email 3ady?
I also was in a mall here and that struck me; The even 10 years old girls look older than i do!!! They are almost naked or I think because of the heat and i wonder, am i the only crazy person nowadays that is dressing up like this!! I dunno…
Men - well, not all, are weird and jurks! Sorry, but most of them don’t know what they want and don’t know Islam asasan… allah yehdi eljamee3
hey..thanks for dropping by on my blog.. how did you get there??! I do write stuff… you just need to click on the little boxed pics at the top to access the writing. Um.. But I’m not sure I want you to now that I’ve read your post. I totally get what you’re saying - and I agree - but I guess I’m one of those hijabi girls who wear makeup etc.. I wish my faith and my confidence was strong enough to wear hijab without makeup, but unfortunately, it’s not… It’s difficult sometimes, wearing hijab in this damn country, and I guess it’s nice if people cut us a little slack - we’re trying, we’re not perfect and we KNOW that!!!
Your words are so true sis. This problem i think comes down to the way that these kids have been brought up. The key to this problem is parents, for ultimately it is the parents that allow their kids to be like this.
We cannot put the whole blame on men, for they were created this way. I mean can you put fresh meat next to a hungry wolf and expect him not to eat it.
Time has definitely changed alot of things !!!
When I was younger, people started to get wacko and use all of these things, so they were starting and I saw that all of this would be coming..
that is why I am not so really astonished, but all what I can say
May God guide us all to the right path!!
Dearest my best Friend,
thats one of the fav. posts i liked over here…
u did well in translating your thoguhts here…
El7amduliAllah al-lathi hadana.. wa ma kuna linahtadi lawla an Hadana Allah…
Best of luck ,…
and lolz… Some “cheap” girlz can be noticed here N our Uni, Allah yihdeehum.. i wish they’ll help themselves to0..
Blame it on Media!
Hi liked reading through your post,you have a good blog,Mother are the foundition and if that was learnt ,then man will follow the good example( my two bits)
Wish you well
so much true what you had just typed sister and I keep the same view: parents. if raising our children Islamically wouldnt have been so important, then there wouldnt be all those hadiths of our Prophet (saws) regarding child education. at the end, you get it as a product what you have previously planted. it isnt that there aint any exceptions, i.e. devout family-astray child, or vice versa. but disciplining children via teaching Islamic manners, besides standing as good examples for’em would at least make us complete our roles as parents. inshaAllah.
well, indeed, may Allah lead them who have been mistaken to the right path, Amin!
& aw, Im in your blogroll, lol. Thank you!
WasSalamu alaykum wR wB!
MashaAllah sister, u have a very nice blog and all the good posts, they took me by heart. Thanx a lot dear sister. Could i link yours to mine?
whatever u said for this post is very true, it happened anywhere even in my country, if only they could think better of what they’re doing, they should be ashame.
salam.
strong post.. i liked it *thumbsup*
may Allah helps us all to stay on the right path, ameen
Wow such a lot of time spent commenting on how girls should be behaving, would it not be worthwhile to chastise the men who “are like predators waiting to attack their prey’s..” doesn’t Islam have anything to say on their actions? Or is it okay for them to act like animals with any available situation?
well dear, this post is about “female” that is why all the comments would be related to the topic
a sin is a sin whether you were a male or a female
regarding mentioning how men should behave, well cos i am a women i prefer to focus on the females most of the time.. ofcourse islam doesnt unjust anyone dear