Running Away - A New Phenomena
I have noticed lately that a lot of girls have been running away from home, I wonder where they got this habit from. I believe it’s because of how much people got addicted to the movies and to the westerners behaviors, in which they believe that running away from home opens the door towards freedom and joy.
I find it hard to understand how a girl would leave her nest (home) and live in the wilderness (outside home) where instead of being treated like a princess, she gets treated as nothing. To her running away from home may resemble bravery but it doesn’t. Running away from home, leaving the two people that love her the most worried would not lead her towards happiness. Instead she will be living a misery. If a girl wants to be happy she should please her parents and honor them rather than be a burden on them and let shame haunt them.
Running away from home proves that the girl can’t face her problems and fears; instead she is running away from it rather than dealing with it.
How can a girl be strong enough to let go of the parents who raised her, who have provided her with a haven, food and clothes and who have loved her more than anything.
It is really heart breaking to see that many Muslims are following the steps that should be avoided, how the media plays with their minds and manipulates their logical way of thinking and how people are slowly letting go of Islam. Very tragic.
You wonder sometimes whether people do things because it’s for their own good, such as running away from home because of being abused by parents, or because they find it “cool” and very “smart”.
I really don’t know what’s going on with the Muslims nowadays, behaving, thinking talking like a non-Muslim.. Believe me running away from home isn’t a solution to your problems girls but is a crisis.. You will bring shame to your family, would be a disobedient daughter and would not do as what Islam asked us to do to be good Muslims.
May Allah forgive all Muslims, both the dead and the living.
Ameen.
i didnt know that many muslim girls run away from home i though it was very rare.
allah yehdeehum o ye9le7hum.
its something not normal :s
but i really like the way u write stuff in ur site mashalla they are clear and beautifully written and easy to understand masha2allah
tbarak allah keep it up my sister in islam.
u should take it to the ma6ba3a and pring all what u wrote in this blog and make a book and waz3eeh write on it Muslims in 2006 lol or anything else and spread it.
and the rest that u will write later make it in another book part two
running away from home is the key to tragedy and fear..
allah yihdi el jmee3..
9a7 lsaanech candle of hope (F)..
=)
This has been happening here???
U.A.E??
yes,,, in UAE
I’m a kind of person who never wants to leave home… My parents have to literally kick me out of the home ..lol
*Sigh* Sweet Home!.. HOW can they abandon such a place ?!!!
This is shocking, I’ve heard of guys doing stuff like that, but girls?
Arabs or even the Khudmuns?
Travelling Stranger –> unfortunately both
Is the noise in the background of the nasheed supposed to be a clock?
Where can I d/l it from? I usually look for your anasheed on talkish.com but I couldn’t find this one.
Travelling Stranger —> are you a member in talkish?
about the noise in the background its the clock ticking.. anyhow, here are the anasheed..
http://www.talkish.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11934
http://www.talkish.com/forums/showthread.php?t=10717
I’m not a member but I’ve been visiting the forum for a long time.
God what happing !!!!!!!! Alla yahdeee eljame3 inshalla Alla yester bs
AD_Queen
mmm … it is really something strange !!
i havenot heared about it …
but how dare that a Girl run away from home …
to where !! with whome ??
it is breaking heart ,, as u said it is the effect of westren movies who present the idea of runnig away as the solution of all problems !!
ALLAH yahdeehom inshallah ,,,
walla something make me sad
Nice entry Candle,,,,
Well no one will run away from home just like that. Probe deeper,,, there must be lots n lots of suffering to push this girl to leave her home.
Remember ~
البيوت أسرار
A girl running away from home is NOT a new phenomenon in Islamic countries…the main reason a girl runs away from home is poverty and seeking for a better life outside home not because she is under western influence.
I’m sure u have seen many of them in UAE but they are dressed so good and they behave so good that u don’t realize they are run away girls…they are mostly mohajeb.
The government should increase women rights and awareness of the current situation.
I read in the passage a girl outside home is treated as nothing, thats 100% true. Result of a survey in the Islamic countries shows a girl who runs away from home is only 24 hours away of getting sexually abused…how sick is that??
We have lot of Muslims around but we don’t have Islam…(tanx 4 reading)