Each person has his/her own way in defining things, for example boring to me means sitting in my room and doing nothing, whereas to others boring means going to the mall and buying nothing. It all depends on how people view things. When it comes to weddings, people come to you and tell you that the wedding they went to was “extremely fun”, at that moment you start thinking, fun in what way?
People, sadly, have in mind that a “fun” wedding should be a wedding with loud music, dancing and a lot of craziness. Unfortunately, this definition has not been heard from a person or two but from a huge number of people.
However, a “fun” wedding can be fun without doing anything that Allah has forbidden, it can be fun without music, it can be fun without dancing and it can be fun by doing many creative things. It all depends on how innovative you are, and how clever you are to do great things in a way that Allah has permitted.
I have heard people talk about weddings that have many dancing shows for ex.  Indian dance, then the Iranian and then the Arabian dance and they talk about it as if they have seen an Alien. I really don’t find that entertaining but I find it a waste of time because a wedding isn’t about having fun and being loud but is about inviting people to dinner and to see the bride FULL STOP!. People, however, made the wedding seem very complicated and hard by trying to do things to entertain their guests so that it would be “FUN” when they are actually disobeying Allah and throwing away their money on things Allah has forbidden.
All what people should do is have fun but in the right way and right path.
 I really advice people to RE-define the word “FUN” in a correct way, so that they would remain on the right track.
May Allah forgive all Muslims.
Ameen