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Locked Up Feelings

November23

In life, it is very normal for us to be in situations where different emotions arise. At times, you find yourself very mad at a close friend, upset from a family member or jealous from a stranger. Most emotions are uncontrollable. Emotions are found within every living thing, its inevitable.

However, not all people can express their feelings properly or decently.

Some people can tell the person who upsets them, that they hurt their feelings but sometimes people just lock things in their heart and expect time to heal it.

It is difficult to tell a person whom you care about that they have hurt you, or that they have broken your heart specially when that person is very close to you. You fear that you may hurt their feelings or just make things worse so you sit quietly and act as if nothing happened. Unfortunately, locking things in you isn’t the right solution, because you become more vulnerable by time and a time will come when you will simply collapse. Building up these feelings would not lead to a happy ending, but may destroy and harm you physically and psychologically.

Sometimes you would wish that there was some kind of an invention that would tell the person who hurt you how you feel exactly and tell them how deeply hurt you are, because you know that when you get the courage to express your feelings you simply mess up and make things worse.

Locking up your feelings may at times be good, but not always.

Unfortunately, In the long run it has a lot of consequences.

 

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9 Comments to

“Locked Up Feelings”

  1. On November 24th, 2007 at 10:26 am Almira Says:

    I agree, if you feel like someone is hurting you I believe you should tell them, alot of times people hurt you with out even realising it.

  2. On November 27th, 2007 at 11:42 am meelani Says:

    candle!!!!! mashallah your site is amaaaazing and you have feelings about people that is sooo cool and mashalla tbarak allah :D and by the way im a friend of your sis little candle my nick name is familliar u will now me soon inshallah and i love ur site sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much mashallah may allah bless you all……

  3. On November 27th, 2007 at 11:50 am meelani Says:

    candle-of-hope may u tell me how can u make ur own site plz me and little candle would like to have our own site it means us together in one site
    ……… and remember lov ur site:D

  4. On November 29th, 2007 at 2:01 pm LiTLe CanDLe Says:

    Salam 3alaikom o ra7mat allahe wa barakatoh
    candle of hope ive been thinking of ur site mashalla tabarak allah how do u get these ideas….till now the most entry I loved was (LOCKED UP FEELINGS) mashallah u and r site are amazing lovya and sis mashalla u really think about people thats nice ….. ur really amazing mashalla tabarak allah ^_^ :)…….

    LiTLe CanDLe

    lovya^_^ :)

  5. On December 2nd, 2007 at 7:37 pm candleofhope Says:

    Thanks LiTle CanDLe and meelani for passing by,
    i’m glad you enjoy visiting my website :)
    Barak Allah feekoum.. ;)

  6. On December 3rd, 2007 at 11:29 am Unexpected Says:

    Candle it seems that you have just come out of my heart lol!

    Your words are very in the right place…..

  7. On December 4th, 2007 at 11:30 pm Someone Says:

    As a guy you natural grow up locking up your feelings. I dont have problems with people rather looking for that inner peace which makes me sad sometimes, it seems sometimes life is a dead end cycle.

  8. On December 8th, 2007 at 6:16 pm Creation Says:

    *Sigh* such is life …

  9. On December 10th, 2007 at 1:25 pm LiTLe CanDLe Says:

    So candle-of-hope when will u wright ur new entry I would really like to read it plz make it fast …… and salam 3alaikom o ra7mat allahe wa barakatoh see u soon……:)^_^

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