Its not easy when people start questioning you,, start to question your abiility In doing things. They sometimes make you feel incompetent, make you feel like a loser. They doubt your abilities in everything and say it out loud, or may sometimes hint it to you. They may even tell others and change people’s impression about you. They don’t realize that by this behavior they are breaking you down, and make you feel weaker and weaker. To them , those words that come out of their mouths may seem normal or not harmful, but it can make great damage to one’s inner self. People would start to have doubts about themselves, they would feel that they no longer have confidence in them. That is why people should be careful in choosing their words and in criticizing others. Not everything goes the way people want, each person navigates things the way they see is right. Which means people don’t have the right to question you, specially If what you’re doing is right.

We should realize that sometimes people’s words may be behind the destruction of others, you should look at one’s good side rather than their flaws. You shouldn’t keep stepping on their self esteem. It’s not easy when a person questions you as a mother, or questions your ability as a housewife or as a friend. They think that you know nothing, not because you actually don’t know anything but because they refuse to see that you are good in what you are doing.

We shouldn’t judge people based on our assumption, Allah will question us about this.