Eid Mubarak to All…

اللهم لك الحمد كما ينبغي لجلال وجهك و عظيم سلطانك

اللهم باركلي في ابنتي و اجعلها من الصالحات

welcome to this world

اللهم أني أُعيذها و ذريتها من الشيطان الرجيم،،

اللهم بارك لي في ابنتي و احفظلها لي و لوالدها

Its not easy when people start questioning you,, start to question your abiility In doing things. They sometimes make you feel incompetent, make you feel like a loser. They doubt your abilities in everything and say it out loud, or may sometimes hint it to you. They may even tell others and change people’s impression about you. They don’t realize that by this behavior they are breaking you down, and make you feel weaker and weaker. To them , those words that come out of their mouths may seem normal or not harmful, but it can make great damage to one’s inner self. People would start to have doubts about themselves, they would feel that they no longer have confidence in them. That is why people should be careful in choosing their words and in criticizing others. Not everything goes the way people want, each person navigates things the way they see is right. Which means people don’t have the right to question you, specially If what you’re doing is right.

We should realize that sometimes people’s words may be behind the destruction of others, you should look at one’s good side rather than their flaws. You shouldn’t keep stepping on their self esteem. It’s not easy when a person questions you as a mother, or questions your ability as a housewife or as a friend. They think that you know nothing, not because you actually don’t know anything but because they refuse to see that you are good in what you are doing.

We shouldn’t judge people based on our assumption, Allah will question us about this.

Ya 5ooy

ya9a7ibee

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The Agony of Divorce

my orphan tear

It’s not easy for a mother to hear that her child has passed away, no matter how old her child was the pain would still exist. The mother would feel as if someone ripped’ out her heart, while some would feel that a part of them no longer exists. Once you hear the news about your babys death, you’d feel as if the world has come to an end. You would start crying thinking about the little baby who lied dead within you. Even if the evidence was there, you would try in anyways to prove the doctor wrong. In such situation one should say ‘الحمدلله على كل حال، قدر الله وماشاء فعل

To new mothers, hearing the words “dead” , “no heartbeat” or “no growth” isnt something they would want to hear, all what they are looking for is to hear that the “little baby is fine”.
ALot of mothers nowadays tend to get abortion as soon as they realise that they are pregnant. Some think its easy to murder the child while its still too early. While others think it would end their misery of having to be responsible for another child. They don’t think about the consequences in the judgment day, neither do they think about the innocent baby. All they think about is their rest and relaxation. Allah has blessed you with this child, a gift that many women are deprived of. ALot of married women pray Allah daily to bless them with a child, but they find themselves infertile or they baby would simply die in their womb at an early stage by Allahs will.
A mother should be thankful that Allah has given her the chance to hear the word “mom” while others pass away before getting the chance to hear it. We shouldn’t think about ourselves only, but should think about the punishment we will received in judgment day for killing an innocent soul for our own comfort.